After reading posts for 8 months I have decided to stick my toe in the water. I know there are some flamethrowers out there so I am prepared for the roasting. I start by guessing I am not the first one to use this corny title. I do get to the point at the end.
To begin, I am a clear outsider because I have never owned a BMW. Trying to keep the sports car dream alive I started looking for something more practical and attainable. A sporty 4-door to haul the family in a pinch would be nice. I suppose it is no surprise to anyone on this forum that my research lead me to the BMW. A smooth six cylinder, rwd, 5spd and handling.
Almost ruined for life: I say almost because I did not drive the car. A coworker took me for a ride in his M5. No thrill ride but just showing the ability to press me back in the seat was quite impressive.
Driving Experience "Susan Komen": I drug my wife out to this great event on a rather nasty day. My first ever time behind the wheel of a BMW was a 330xi (not sure if it was an x). I would have loved a manual but hey to drive with no salesman was great. I had been reading about the handling so now I was going to get to experience it firsthand. I took the car down a long looping off ramp. I started down the ramp at a pretty good pace and then realized I was probably only at 60% of the grip limit so I pressed the throttle on around the loop and my wife literally screamed

. That was worth the price of admission!
I jumped back in line just like at Disney for another ride. My wife went with me for the next two rides. We drove a Z4 (2.5) which I did not like much for a variety of reasons. Next up was a X5 (4.4) - nice SUV but not as much fun as the 330. My wife left and I stayed to drive an 05 530i. The 530 was nice but did not overly impress me. I ended my day of driving with a 330ci ZHP. It was great fun leaving a poor X3 in the dust - not much of a contest but still fun. It was kind of funny to see all the X3's just sit there with no one wanting to drive them but I guess they just did not have the fun appeal in the fleet.
My Ride: Yes - it is a Mazda (RX-8? No, RX-7 Wrong again, Miata - No) -1992 Protege - Yes! I bought it new nearly 14 years ago. 125HP, 5spd, light - pushing 150K. A fun and reliable car although I am not a fan of fwd. The only concern at this point is safety - I don't think it or me would fair well in a crash (no air bags and terrible motorized seatbelts).

Cost of Ownership: This is a subject that keeps me from taking the plunge. I read of people spending 3K, 5, 8K or more just to keep their BMW's on the road. The warnings are everywhere about owning one of these cars out of warranty. I do some basic DIY stuff such as brakes, oil changes, plugs, etc.
I know you need a crystal ball but if I spend 10-12K on a 1998 328i then do I need another $5K set aside just to keep it running? I don't know if I could come up with 3K of repairs for the 14 years of ownership on the Mazda.
I would love to be able to drive a car that is always under warranty but the cost of a new one or CPO is just to high.
As for now the dream continues as I enjoy this forum and look forward to this year's driving experience!